WHAT I LEARNED: 1. To me, there’s something intriguing about reading discontinued books. I feel like I’m uncovering something they no longer want me to know. This is how I felt reading Al-Anon’s second book, “Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism” (item # B-1) that I got from our District archives chairperson. It originally came out in 1965 at a time when the concept of alcoholism as a disease was gaining ground & Al-Anon Family Groups was trying to legitimize itself as a resource for professionals as well as for people from all walks of life.
While I was also given the 1st edition, the one I read was the 2nd edition from 1984 (where about half the book was overhauled). The book was officially discontinued in 1998 because it was felt an annual outreach periodical could keep up better with current thinking on the disease – hence the title of the book was transferred to the magazine we have today.
2. The book is made up of 3 sections: articles from professionals, members’ sharings, & principles of the program. The first part was refreshing because so much of our literature is emotional & from within the fellowship, but the assessments from doctors & psychologists were matter-of-fact clinical views from the outside looking in. …Especially the first article, where each stage a family goes through is detailed to the point that if I walked into an office to get a diagnosis, they could say, “Yep, you’re at this particular stage & this is what’s coming up…” I’ve always thought what I went through was so chaotic & unpredictable, but apparently the path has a distinct pattern that is very well-worn.
3. I enjoyed that the stories were much longer than what is typically printed nowadays. I came across one that was similar to my own, but then I remembered that the beginning of the story mentioned World War II. Another talked about memories of Prohibition. It was like reading a time capsule & feeling connected to the past.
4. My 2 favorite lines from this book are:
1) “If you have been put in your place long enough, you begin to act like the place.” (Sounds like my childhood!);
2) “A worldwide friendship.” I’m so used to hearing “worldwide fellowship”, but I like “friendship” better!
**BONUS: This is 1 of only 2 Al-Anon books given to the White House staff at “The 1970 White House Conference on Children.” What was the other one? (Hint: an early version of item # B-5!)
***DOUBLE BONUS: The 1st edition of this book features a quote from a speech given at a Temperance Society gathering way back in 1842 that compared alcoholism to other hereditary diseases. Who said it? (Hint: the same person quoted on item # M-12!)