WHAT I LEARNED: 1. Initially, I was dreading reading this book. I thought it was just going to be a boring history book with a litany of dates & facts that were as dry as sandpaper. Turns out, this has been one of the best well-written books I’ve come across so far!! It was designed so it could be used in group discussions (similar to a daily reader) so no section is long enough to become boring. As it encapsulates each World Service Conference from Al-Anon’s beginning up until 2010, it also switches to member sharings from those different time periods & offers questions that bring large World Service Office (WSO) issues down to a personal level.
2. The overall theme definitely seems to be how a growing worldwide organization deals with change. Whether it’s civil rights in the 60’s, acknowledging adult children of alcoholics in the 80’s, welcoming gays & lesbians in the 90’s, relocating the WSO office & owning property, establishing Alateen safety requirements, using KBDM thinking (see page 363), registering online meetings, or looking to increase diversity in the future… it has not been as smooth of a road as I thought! (Perhaps that’s why the WSO loves 3-year trial periods!) I think a line on page 185 from the 2nd edition of “Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism” (item # B-1) says it best: “…all growth is accompanied by resistance, whether it is a seed struggling through compacted earth, the birth of a newborn, or a person’s effort to surrender negative views.”
3. One of the most touching parts of the book for me was the “To Russia with Love” program in the early to mid-90’s that encouraged the “adoption” of Russian groups until they could be self-supporting. The letter from a Russian member on page 284 still makes me cry. If anybody ever asks me why I go to Al-Anon, I would quote this one line from her letter: “He drinks, but my hand shakes.”
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**BONUS: In 1993, Tampa, Florida was one of 3 “narrowed-down” cities considered for the new WSO headquarters before they finally chose Virginia Beach. I guess they had beaches on their mind after being in New York for so long!
Thanks for sharing. This book does sound interesting. Take care. Be well. You can go wrong with Al Anon 🙂
I haven’t gone wrong with it since I’ve been working it!
I have learned so much from your review. I had never thought about how world changes would be addressed by Al-Anon. Interesting. Thank you, Pat, for your service. I appreciate all of the time you spend reading and writing for all of us.
Blessings. Patty L
I’m glad we’re all enjoying this “reading” journey together!