CAL – Starting an Alateen Group (Item # G-19)

WHAT I LEARNED: There are only 2 types of Alateen meetings: Closed & Limited Access.  Even I, as Literature Chairperson at the District Level, cannot attend an Alateen meeting.  Only Al‑Anon members involved in Alateen Service (AMIAS’s) & designated Area trusted servants can go & even then, it’s only on an occasional basis.  The only non-certified attendees allowed are the kids…

CAL – Alateen Talks Back on: Serenity (Item # P-69)

WHAT I LEARNED: 1. Ahhh, put on some soothing music & light a candle because today I read about Serenity (and yes, that’s with a capital “S”)!  At the end of this booklet are ten questions for meeting topics on Serenity & the last one, “Is Serenity contagious?” really made me think.  I know I’ve…

CAL – District Meetings (Item # G-15)

WHAT I LEARNED: 1. Just like group meetings, district meetings can vary widely.  Hence the autonomousness nature of the program (see Tradition 4). 2. FYI: The Greek word autonomos means “having one’s own laws,” from autos: “self” & nomos: “law.”  That’s your word origin of the day! 🤓 ━━━━━▼━━━━━ **UPDATE (5/5/17): This guideline was revised…

MTG – Chuluota – “New Life AFG”

WHAT I LEARNED: “Fine” stands for: Frustrated, Insecure, Neurotic, & Emotional.  (Actually I learned this sometime ago but I couldn’t remember the entire acronym.  Now that I’m writing it in this blog, I can refer back to it if I ever forget again & start telling people I’m “fine!”)

MTG – Orlando – “TLC AFG”

WHAT I LEARNED: I think there ought to be a second part to Step 6 that says: “…and we were entirely ready to embrace all of our character assets!”

MTG – Longwood – “Pathway To Life AFG”

WHAT I LEARNED: How liberating it is to be in a very small group where I can share for 20 minutes straight about all the stuff I haven’t been able to say for quite a while!  Whew, that felt good! 😮‍💨 😌

CAL – Suggested Programs for Meeting (Item # G-13)

WHAT I LEARNED: I’ll never be without a meeting topic again now that I’ve seen the second page of this guideline with 23 options to choose from! ━━━━━▼━━━━━ **UPDATE (5/5/17): This guideline was revised in 2013.  The title has changed slightly because an “s” has been added to the word “Meeting” to make it plural. …

MTG – Orlando – “Easy Does It”

WHAT I LEARNED: 1. Al-Anon is many things to many people.  It reminds me of the poem, “The Blind Men & the Elephant” by John Godfrey Saxe – only without the disputing of opinions! 2. My favorite line from the book study tonight is from page 107 from “Opening Our Hearts, Transforming Our Losses” (item #…

CAL – Group Representative (Item # G-11)

WHAT I LEARNED: Back in the day when I was a GR (Group Representative), I was given this guideline as a hardcopy but I must have only read the front side.  Now that I’m reading it electronically, I finally see the second page with the Sample Agenda for a Group Business Meeting & the GR…